Wednesday, July 21, 2010

communication..

have u ever wonder..
are u communicating the right way??
ngeee..
pagi tadi baru je blaja bout communication process
and therefore,rase mcm nk berkongsi with u guys
yelah..kalau kite gune nada/tone yg lain,mungkin apa yg kita nk smpaikan
disalah erti oleh org lain..kan kan ^_^

hanya 30% je verbal communication berkesan pd kita
and the rest 70% depends on our body language
cube bygkan..haaa..ni kne bygkan betul2 taw =P

"saye suka awk lah"
(tapi muke ketat..serius..mcm nk telan org =P)
org yg menerima penyataan tu mesti pelik
dia ni suka aku ke nk marah aku..kan @_@
mcm xkena je kn

soo..here we goes..
ape element2 yg pntg dlm komunikasi..
encode (org yg berbicara), decode (org yg mendengar), symbol, meaning, channel
tu kire antara component2 la
(dr.azlin ckp soalan ni kuar peksa..sile take note!!~)

the BEST part..and make me interested about this communication process
adalah LEVEL of communication ^_^

CLICHE'
(1st level-mcm permulaan kpd komunikasi antara org la ni)
FACTS
(2nd level-sharing information with people we communicate)
OPINIONS
(3rd level-concern+expectation kita terhadap sesuatu,mcm goal kita dlm komunikasi tu)
FEELINGS
(4th level-ni mcm reflection kita,what do we feel about communication..marah? geram? seronok?)

selalunya,sume org akn smpai tahap ke-4 ni je
mostly bhadapan dgn kwn2 ke..lecturer ke..anyone yg biasa..
org yg kita bcakap hari2..
TAPI...

NEEDS
(5th level- SOULMATE)

ni plg BEST la sbb kn..bila da smpai tahap ke-5 ni
kita sgt2 trust org tu..smpai secret kita,kita share dgn org tu
we don't feel shy at all ngn org tu..kita open bout diri kita
mcm xde boundaries..and that's we call intimacy..
sbb tu name level ni needs..sbb,we need that person..
always and always..

and.for that,thanks a lot mummy ^_^
rasenye tahap komunikasi kita da smpai thp 5 kn bu :D

to everyone..make sure that apa yg kita nk smpaikan pd org
tersmpai..and,xdisalah ertikan
body language plg important..kalau on the phone/sms mmg xde la kn
tp kalau bdepan dgn org..body language memainkn peranan
just be what u want to be..show ur trueself
bile cover2..tu yg ckp sy syg awk..tapi muke mcm singa lapar..haha =P
practice make perfect kn ^_^

to all doctors+future doctors as well
communication between doctor+patient is the most important part
whatever it is,be professional+empathy
may everyone improve their communication process..ngeee ^_^

No comments: