Thursday, October 6, 2011

mummy & daddy

A Letter from "Mom n Dad"...

My child,

When I get old, I hope you understand 'n have patience with me
In case I break the plate, or spill soup on the table because I’m losing my eyesight, I hope you don’t yell at me.
Older people are sensitive, always having self pity when you yell.
When my hearing gets worse 'n I can’t hear what you’re saying, I hope you don’t call me ‘Deaf!’
Please repeat what you said or write it down.

I’m sorry, my child.
I’m getting older.
When my knees get weaker, I hope you have the patience to help me get up.
Like how I used to help you while you were little, learning how to walk.
Please bear with me, when I keep repeating myself like a broken record, I hope you just keep listening to me.
Please don’t make fun of me, or get sick of listening to me.

Do you remember when you were little 'n you wanted a ballon? You repeated yourself over 'n over until you get what you wanted.
Please also pardon my smell. I smell like an old person.Please don’t force me to shower.
My body is weak.
Old people get sick easily when they’re cold. I hope I don’t gross you out.

Do you remember when you were little? I used to chase you around because you didn’t want to shower.
I hope you can be patient with me when I’m always cranky. It’s all part of getting old.
You’ll understand when you’re older.
'n if you have spare time, I hope we can talk even for a few minutes.
I’m always all by myself all the time, 'n have no one to talk to.
I know you’re busy with work.
Even if you’re not interested in my stories, please have time for me.

Do you remember when you were little? I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear.
When the time comes, 'n I get ill 'n bedridden, I hope you have the patience to take care of me.
I’m sorry if I accidentally wet the bed or make a mess.
I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life.
I’m not going to last much longer, anyway.
When the time of my death comes, I hope you hold my hand 'n give me strength to face death.

'n don’t worry..
When I finally meet our creator, I will whisper in his ear to bless you. Because you loved your Mom 'n Dad.
Thank you so much for your care.
We love you. ! ♥

p/s: i got this from facebook =( and it's really touched ryt? just a reply for the message.

dear mummy.daddy,

i might not know what i will do in the future.i know, sometimes, i might not able to control my myself.sometimes, i might hurt u both.sometimes i might not be as patient as u guys while raising me up
truthfully, i'm so LUCKY to be born as ur daughter.i believe not everyone is as lucky as i am
i know we're not from a rich family that afford mercedes.that afford condominium as their place to stay
i might not have all those jeweleries.i might not have all those branded stuff from gucci, prada etc etc
but mummy.daddy.i never regret being like what i am now.
because, u both raised me up with full of love.and, not everyone received love from their parents.
even how tired u are.even how sleepy u r.mummy and daddy is always there to listen.
always there to be my crying shoulder.

i still remember when i was a kid, my dad who works as a teacher, 
who also being a full time degree student, a part time soldier..
came back after his work.and it was late at night
i know u're soo tired, but yet, the 3 of us always sit around u while u're sleeping
asking u to tell us bedtime story.sometimes it was "sang kancil dan sang harimau", and sometimes "masyitah dan firaun". but, then, u never refuse.u never say no.
and all the time.u always "tersasul", and actually that's the best comedy ever
and that is why we keep on asking u to tell us bedtime story.
just imagine, "firaun yang tinggal dalam istana,boleh jadi tinggal dalam stor" 
haha.i just really3 miss the moment daddy.
even, if i ask for someting, if i ask for durian, manggis etc etc
i know u will buy for me, even it's late, u will buy for me, for us.
how lucky i am to have u luck i am to have a loving daddy like u.

and mummy.i know.i know how lucky i am to have u mummy.
u're there, always listen, always protect me, always hear my voice out
even u're asleep, u will wake up and pick up my phone call
and listen to me babling sometimes about things that are not concerning u
and it just concerning me.
how much i love u mummy. will i ever had all this experience
will i ever have someone to love me like how u both love me mummy daddy?

i know i won't get all this mummy & daddy
i know i won't get it from others..
thanks a lot mummy..

for all this, i promise, i will try my best
i promise i will love u guys till the end of my life
and always make u guys proud of me.
even people do say, a mother can take care of 10 children, but 10 children may not be able to take care of 1 mother.

but mummy.there's only 3 of us
insyaALLAH mummy,daddy. i will,i will try..
Allah's willing..

that's my promise.insyaALLAH...

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